MAN what an interesting last few days I’ve had…
Backstory: I had briefly dated someone a few weeks back, but stopped dating him because we don’t get along very well. That and he’s too intense for me. I work best with people who aren’t high-strung. Anyway- he and I didn’t work out. We moved on. Or so I thought.
Sunday night I’m at my fave little hangout with my best girlfriends and everything is going fabulously. I was flirting shamelessly with my crush, having a good time and then all hell broke loose. In walked the guy it didn’t work out with. And he had a very angry bee shoved right up his ass. Now I have NO idea what provoked him into the tantrum he ended up having- but I did learn that he’s completely crazy and in need of immediate mental attention.
Guy it didn’t work out with orders a beer, drinks it in under 30 seconds, then gets in my face and begins to yell incoherent things at me. All I managed to get from his tirade were something about me finding a “real man”, and “is this the way you want it to be”… All I kept thinking was: WTF is seriously taking place right now?? I hadn’t talked to the guy in weeks. Last time I saw him, he was out with another woman. Hence me thinking we’d BOTH moved on. So he keeps yelling at me, and when I’d finally had enough, I yelled back at him to get the fuck out of my face and go away. He did, but only after heading to the parking lot, where he proceeded to kick in my car window. I SO wish I were kidding. So then, I melt down and start freaking out.
I am very lucky to have kick-ass friends who care about me. The ones I was with jumped into action, took my car to a nearby gas station and vacuumed out my car. They managed to get every single piece of glass out. And because the window was shattered with such force- glass was EVERYWHERE. On top of them tending to me and my injured car, they pitched in and left money in my car to pay for a new window. How awesome is that? I couldn’t believe it. Tomorrow, my window gets fixed.
I haven’t heard from the asshole who broke my window since that night. I’m hoping I never do again. But if he gets near me or my property again, he’s going to jail. So hopefully he stays the hell away from me.
Other than the few minutes of crazy… Life has been fabulously fun. I’ve been hanging out a lot with wonderful people, have met new wonderful people and, for the first time in as long as I can remember… I have a crush again.
And that’s what I’ve been up to. Next up… work, work, a couple of art and web projects and more fun. Hopefully, no more crazy. I’ve had enough for one lifetime.
Peace and normal brain function.