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	<title>Comments on: If You&#8217;re Bad News, I&#8217;ll Give You My Number</title>
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	<description>Sometimes what goes in... must come out.</description>
	<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 16:58:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Corrina</title>
		<link>http://www.myrandomblog.net/2008/05/07/if-youre-bad-news/#comment-1675</link>
		<dc:creator>Corrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 19:04:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Susan - Exactly. The info coming from another guy is weird to me. It's not like Cute Guy played HIM, right? LOL... And if nothing else... My mirror is fixed so yay!

Marvin - Thank you sweetie!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susan - Exactly. The info coming from another guy is weird to me. It&#8217;s not like Cute Guy played HIM, right? LOL&#8230; And if nothing else&#8230; My mirror is fixed so yay!</p>
<p>Marvin - Thank you sweetie!</p>
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		<title>By: Marvin the Martian</title>
		<link>http://www.myrandomblog.net/2008/05/07/if-youre-bad-news/#comment-1667</link>
		<dc:creator>Marvin the Martian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 13:15:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you! I like to see a strong, independent, free-spirited woman speak her mind and to go after what she wants. It's a joy to read your thoughts, Corrina.

&lt;em&gt;Marvin the Martian's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://peanutbutterandpickles.blogspot.com/2008/05/breathing.html'&gt;Breathing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you! I like to see a strong, independent, free-spirited woman speak her mind and to go after what she wants. It&#8217;s a joy to read your thoughts, Corrina.</p>
<p><em>Marvin the Martian&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://peanutbutterandpickles.blogspot.com/2008/05/breathing.html'>Breathing</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
		<link>http://www.myrandomblog.net/2008/05/07/if-youre-bad-news/#comment-1664</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 12:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think if a female told you those things about him they'd carry more weight.  Do guys that aren't "players" resent other guys that are?  And I think the fact that he fixed your mirror has to at least get him some points, too.

&lt;em&gt;Susan's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://rightbrainmusings.blogspot.com/2008/05/lament-of-working-mom.html'&gt;Lament Of A Working Mom&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think if a female told you those things about him they&#8217;d carry more weight.  Do guys that aren&#8217;t &#8220;players&#8221; resent other guys that are?  And I think the fact that he fixed your mirror has to at least get him some points, too.</p>
<p><em>Susan&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://rightbrainmusings.blogspot.com/2008/05/lament-of-working-mom.html'>Lament Of A Working Mom</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Corrina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 08:15:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nick - I, honestly don't think I'll ever see that fool again anyway. But I agree... I like to shoulder my own blame. lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nick - I, honestly don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll ever see that fool again anyway. But I agree&#8230; I like to shoulder my own blame. lol</p>
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		<title>By: Nick Phillips</title>
		<link>http://www.myrandomblog.net/2008/05/07/if-youre-bad-news/#comment-1648</link>
		<dc:creator>Nick Phillips</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 01:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I for one never ever listen to what people say about something or someone. I like to form my own opinion. At least that way, if things go wrong, I can only blame myself ... LOL!

&lt;em&gt;Nick Phillips's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://nickphil67.blogspot.com/2008/05/me-my-headaches.html'&gt;Me &#38;  My Headaches ...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I for one never ever listen to what people say about something or someone. I like to form my own opinion. At least that way, if things go wrong, I can only blame myself &#8230; LOL!</p>
<p><em>Nick Phillips&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://nickphil67.blogspot.com/2008/05/me-my-headaches.html'>Me &amp;  My Headaches &#8230;</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Corrina</title>
		<link>http://www.myrandomblog.net/2008/05/07/if-youre-bad-news/#comment-1640</link>
		<dc:creator>Corrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 20:35:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angi - Ick. That guy is not hot. LOL

Lisa Lisa - I'm not looking to settle down with this guy, I don't even really know him, so it doesn't matter to me if he turns out to be "shady". I'm just looking to have some fun. :-) 

Jeff - See? You're the perfect example! The "player" thing doesn't bother me at all. Besides, even if he were, they usually aren't that way forever.

Lisa Lisa - Aw, how sweet that you and your hubs are still happy and in love. Good for you two! I'm not even thinking about a husband, however. I'm allergic to that kind of commitment. lol

Natural - I absolutely welcome (and pay attention to) the opinions of my close friends. Always. However, these weren't my best friend's opinions... They were the words of a guy that she works with. He had asked her to pass them on to me. She's never even seen the cute guy. But if she met him and told me she had a bad vibe, or saw something in his behavior that worried her- I would pay attention to that. 

I trust my friend's opinions. But I don't trust second hand info. from people I don't know that well. Likewise, when I see something not right with one of their potential crushes, I speak up. That's what friends are for, right? Thank you for your comment... That was a good one. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angi - Ick. That guy is not hot. LOL</p>
<p>Lisa Lisa - I&#8217;m not looking to settle down with this guy, I don&#8217;t even really know him, so it doesn&#8217;t matter to me if he turns out to be &#8220;shady&#8221;. I&#8217;m just looking to have some fun. <img src='http://myrandomblog.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Jeff - See? You&#8217;re the perfect example! The &#8220;player&#8221; thing doesn&#8217;t bother me at all. Besides, even if he were, they usually aren&#8217;t that way forever.</p>
<p>Lisa Lisa - Aw, how sweet that you and your hubs are still happy and in love. Good for you two! I&#8217;m not even thinking about a husband, however. I&#8217;m allergic to that kind of commitment. lol</p>
<p>Natural - I absolutely welcome (and pay attention to) the opinions of my close friends. Always. However, these weren&#8217;t my best friend&#8217;s opinions&#8230; They were the words of a guy that she works with. He had asked her to pass them on to me. She&#8217;s never even seen the cute guy. But if she met him and told me she had a bad vibe, or saw something in his behavior that worried her- I would pay attention to that. </p>
<p>I trust my friend&#8217;s opinions. But I don&#8217;t trust second hand info. from people I don&#8217;t know that well. Likewise, when I see something not right with one of their potential crushes, I speak up. That&#8217;s what friends are for, right? Thank you for your comment&#8230; That was a good one. <img src='http://myrandomblog.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 20:05:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh.  well it's nice to have friends that look out for you but it's also great when you can form your own opinion. sometimes i do tell my girlfriends when their SO isn't quite right for them and i tell them why if i continue to see things happening...AS A FRIEND, i kind of have to say something, but after that, i let it go and never say i told you so.  i think we all know when someone isn't right for us, we just don't want to admit it or speak the truth out loud.

somethings we do need to find out on our own, but a little whisper in the ear never bothered me.

&lt;em&gt;Natural's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/whats-in-your-wallet/'&gt;What's In Your Wallet?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh.  well it&#8217;s nice to have friends that look out for you but it&#8217;s also great when you can form your own opinion. sometimes i do tell my girlfriends when their SO isn&#8217;t quite right for them and i tell them why if i continue to see things happening&#8230;AS A FRIEND, i kind of have to say something, but after that, i let it go and never say i told you so.  i think we all know when someone isn&#8217;t right for us, we just don&#8217;t want to admit it or speak the truth out loud.</p>
<p>somethings we do need to find out on our own, but a little whisper in the ear never bothered me.</p>
<p><em>Natural&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/whats-in-your-wallet/'>What&#8217;s In Your Wallet?</a></em></p>
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